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this isn't usually the way i do things. i'm pretty picky about who i add because i want my LJ friends to become REAL friends and i want to be friends with people who appreciate individuality and don't need everyone to agree with them all of the time.

if you jive with me so far, here's me in a little nutshell. (you can read my profile too. since my journal is friends only, i tried to paint a decent picture of who i am in my profile.)

i'm a christian but not religious. God is my friend and i talk about my relationship with Him like i would any other friendship. i don't preach and i don't hold other people to my own personal standards. i do hold my friends to the following standards: accept me as i am, don't judge my other friends (because i'm friends with ALL KINDS and i love them each dearly), be straightforward and honest with me.

i cherish people who aren't afraid to say it like it is with kindness and compassion. that's a rare quality/skill and one i aim to possess daily. i'm in love with my husband and we have a little girl but i don't talk about them much in my journal. my journal is amazingly mostly about me and the things i think about. i also use my journal to be stupid silly sometimes. fun is my game and i aim to win. ;)

please note:
1. i will not add you first. add me, and then i'll add you back.
2. i will not add you back unless you commented on this entry. (or the one on my journal.)
3. no boys please! girls only. :) (this is nothing against guys. it's out of respect for my wonderful marriage - i would like to keep it that way. past experience has taught me that befriending guys and sharing personal things like journals is not wise.)
4. i will not add you back if your journal is not established. this means you need to have friends, entries, and a create date that goes back farther than three months ago.

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