Mindie (jumjumgirl) wrote in add_me,
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My name is Mindie. :)

I was thinking about writing another addme, but I'm afraid to because I got a bunch of people I felt incompatible with last time. :( I just want a handful of new friends I can relate to, feel comfortable with, interact with, don't annoy me and who I don't annoy. :(

I don't want normies to add me. I don't want people that I would likely see on one of those home remodeling shows on tv. I don't want middle class normies that think they aren't because they "have anxiety" and have trouble paying their bills simply because they have a expensive house in a neighborhood with home owner's associations and expensive vehicles and go on vacation every other week. I don't want young girls who are in the dating scene, going out with a dozen different people a month and complaining about all of them because they aren't perfect and I certainly don't want any parents of young children.

I want people like me this time. I'm poor and crazy and can't relate to that stuff. Not the "Oh haha, my life is SO crazy cause I had to do xxx and yyy and zzz today while running on 4 hours of sleep because my kid kept me up!" I'm schizophrenic and fight depression and it shows sometimes. I want people that laugh at my silly comments and who I actually feel comfortable leaving silly comments with. I want people that I can interact with on their journal and who interact with me on my journal because this site is about friends to me, not silently, mutually reading or lurking.

Now more about me: I'm in my 30s, live in the US, have a boyfriend that I've known for nearly 9 years now, have an awesome little dog and a cat that I'm afraid of, on SSDI, go to school (online), live with my mom because neither one of us can afford it on our own, love pc gaming, try to watch anime since my bf likes it, very rarely watch tv or movies and hardly read because I suck, have no idea who most of the celebrities and musicians are this decade, stay away from politics and have religious beliefs that aren't mainstream but don't talk about it much. I used to be an alcoholic and did a lot of drugs and it's probably cut my lifespan down by a good 20 years so forgive me if I don't want to read lots of drinking and drugs talk.

I'm not an INFJ. I'm actually an ISFP which is common offline but rare on here. In fact I've never seen anyone say they were an ISFP on lj, so coupled with my already odd way of thinking due to schizo, I might come across as even weirder to you. Or completely normal. I dunno. I feel like I'm a complete outsider on here sometimes. :(

I've been on lj since 2003 minus a couple years I switched to dreamwidth, but I've never went on hiatus for more than a week. Always truckin' along. I post almost everyday and often it seems every 12 hours, but usually not long entries like this one. No anti-lgbt, racists or other mean types please. Let me know in a comment down here if you add me.
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