So, here's the thing... I am looking for actual friends, not just someone to add on LJ. If you are not going to read and comment my entries every now and again don't add me because I'm not interested. You should also know that I am not going to comment on every one of your journal entries because I might not always have something to say. But when I do have something to say I will comment. Another, minor thing, you may want to be aware of is that I don't update every day or even every week. I update when I have something to say or something I want to talk about.
My name is Ashley. I'll be 22 in June. I was born and raised in Delaware. In my journal I write about things that are bothering me, things that make me happy, my BF/relationship, my home life, my (lack of a) social life, fandoms and whatever else I feel like talking about. If you don't like what I update about, that's fine, but do not leave nasty and/or negative comments because I will remove you. I'm not here for that stuff and I do not want other peoples negativity in my journal.
Things I like are as follows:
MUSIC: The Spill Canvas, Lady GaGa, The Fray, Britney Spears, Tegan & Sara and Paramore
MOVIES: anything Disney (/Pixar), anything w/Kate Winslet, Ryan Gosling, Rachel McAdams, Reese Witherspoon,anything romantic and horror
TV SHOWS: Most of the TV shows I enjoy are now off the air and only show in reruns, but they are... Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Dawson's Creek, Friends, The Nanny, The Golden Girls, old school Nickelodeon/Cartoon Network shows, Dexter and Heroes
BOOKS: Anythiny by Jodi Picoult, The Harry Potter Series, The Twilight Saga (don't judge me! & I'm not a crazy "Twihard"), Nicholas Sparks, Christopher Pike, romance, mystery and horror
Things I do not like are:
liars, idiots, people who lack common sense, bigots, rudeness, selfishness, ignorance, restrictions, Miley Cyrus, bratty kids, drama... And a lot of other stuff.
You can find more of my likes/dislikes in my userinfo.
I'm a friendly person and a good friend. I'm well-rounded. I have my bitchy moments, my weird moments and the moments when I'm a complete spaz. I am very open about my problems on my LJ. I sometimes share TMI, but it is my journal, afterall. Most of the time, if I'm sharing too much, it will be put behind a cut with a warning; ha. I am a bit of a spelling nerd. I hate when I can't understand what people are saying because they don't spell correctly or use punctuation. I do not like people telling me I'm wrong for the way I feel or for the opinions I have or the things I believe in (or don't believe in!). I don't like people making me feel inadequate. I like the person I am and I will not have people make me doubt myself, especially people who hardly know me.
PLEASE DO NOT ADD ME IF:
- You always talk about drugs or alcohol, how "fucked up" you were three nights ago or how bad you need some weed. I don't care. I'm not a big drinker and I absolutely do not do drugs. If you do, that's fine, but if it's all you update about I'd rather not be friends.
- All you update about is: politics, fandoms, or drama (nooo, thank you!).
- You tYYpe LiKE DiZZ. Seriously? I wanna be able to understand what your saying without trying to decipher anything.
- You're a negative person who only whines in your journal.
- You are closed-minded and/or judgemental. No, thank you.
- You are a man. Sorry, but I just do not get along with, feel comfortable with or have much of anything in common with, men.
DO ADD ME IF:
+ We have similar personalities.
+ We have some of the same interests.
+ You are mature, well-rounded and open-minded.
+ You think we could be real friends and not just LJ friends.